"But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called 'today,' that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin" (Hebrews 3:13). Sitting over a cup of coffee at one time or another, almost every woman has been called upon to listen to someone else tell their troubles. As Christians, what does God expect of us in these times? Certainly, we ought to be good listeners and be able to keep a secret where warranted. Both of these are good qualities—but are we not required to do more ? Even in a Bible study, it is not uncommon to find people sharing their difficulties and feeling refreshed for having done so. However, talking about our problems brings only temporary relief. In order for us to take an effective step forward, the Word of God must be brought to bear on the particular problem or temptation and prayer made for God’s help in meeting the problem in His way. But who is to exhort in this fashion? Exhortation seems to be a rare art among Christians. B...
RIGHT JUDGMENT "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, “Let me take the speck out of your eye,” when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye" (Matt. 7:1–5). You are not a help to anyone, including yourself, if you are filled with a critical spirit. However, Jesus did not tell us to forget criticism. He said to get rid of your own plank, and then you will be able to see clearly to help someone else. There are two dangers in the misuse of Jesus’ statement in Matthew 7. First, we can fail to read to the end of verse five and not realize that we need to see clearly before we try to...