The Bible speaks of the church as the Bride of Christ. We in the church, both male and female, are part of the Bride of Christ. A bride’s love for her husband is a responsive love. The love of a man for a woman is an originating love. She loves because he first loved her. The more he loves her, the more she loves him. The less he loves, the less she loves. Look at 1 John 4:19: “We love Him, because He first loved us.” Make a study from the Bible on how much God loved, and how much He loves us. Keep this study going. You will find your love for Him growing. You will find obedience growing, too. God’s love for us is sacrificial. Our responsive love for Him is obedience. “Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything” (Eph. 5:22-24). These are unconditional commands to wives
Jeremiah 17:7-8: "Blessed is the man that trusteth in the LORD, and whose hope the LORD is. For he shall be as a tree planted by the waters, and that spreadeth out her ROOTS BY THE RIVER, and shall not see when heat cometh, but her leaf shall be green; and shall not be careful in the year of drought, neither shall cease from yielding fruit."