If the woman does not want a baby then that which is conceived is not a baby; it is only part of her body which is hers alone to do with what she wants.
This subjective way of determining truth means that someone is lying or deceived. It may be the same woman at two different times.
If women had no inherent mother instinct, but only a dead reasoning ability, they might be able to get away with this lie to themselves. But God did not make them that way.
In addition to having millions of babies in Heaven we have millions of women living in awful guilt which they are not able to justify.
There is hope!
The words "it was credited to him" were written not for him alone, but also
for us, to whom God will credit righteousness—for us who believe in him who
raised Jesus our Lord from the dead. He was delivered over to death for our sins
and was raised to life for our justification. Therefore, since we have
been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus
Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we
now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. (Romans
You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless,
Christ died for the ungodly. (Romans 5:6)