The Bible speaks of the Church as the Bride of Christ. In this relationship, the Church is feminine, and Christ is masculine. A man’s love for a woman is originating love. A bride’s love for her husband is responsive love. She loves because he loved her first. The more he loves her, the more she loves him.
"We love Him, because He first loved us" (1 John 4:19).
God’s love for us is sacrificial. Our responsive love towards Him is obedience. Make a study from the Bible on how much God loves, and how much He loves us. Keep this study going. You will find your love for Him growing. You will find your obedience growing, too.